Often we have great intentions to help a loved one when asking how to help but by opening with such an open ended question, you’re adding more to their plate.
- “I am heading to the pharmacy, do you need anything picked up?”
- “I would love to drop off a meal, Do you all have any dietary restrictions or other limitations?”
- “I’d love to spend some time with the kids and help get them out of your hair for a bit. Can we plan a time for me to take them out?”
- “Can I help with some spring cleaning or purging? I know it can take lots of effort moving stuff around and I am happy to help!”
- “What you’re going through is so hard. If you ever just need someone to listen I would be happy to.”
You’re awesome for wanting to support your loved one. Giving them something specific lets them know you aren’t just all talk and gives them ideas of how you can help.
You Got This!