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HME x JSM: Greater than the sum of the parts

|Lacey Tomlinson
I've always loved the expression "The whole is greater than the sum of its parts". It feels like magic that one thing can be more than the elements that were...

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HME x JSM: Greater than the sum of the parts
|Lacey Tomlinson
I've always loved the expression "The whole is greater than the sum of its parts". It feels like magic that one thing can be more than the elements that were added in. And I love magical feelings. For years I had operated as a solopreneur handling every element of running a business. One of those versions looked very similar to JSM with courses and community. But it didn't work, I burned out hard and fast. About to call it all quits and apply for an hourly job that brought me... Read more...
When to Call an Ambulance: Why Asking for Help Is So Hard
|Lacey Tomlinson
I nearly passed out rather than call an ambulance. Sound familiar? Explore why we struggle to ask for help and discover 3 questions to shift how you show up when you need support. Read more...
We're evolving (and that's not a failure)
|Lacey Tomlinson
Ten years ago, I couldn't have imagined where I'd be today—co-founding the Joyful Support Movement, co-hosting podcasts, and building an online village of support. But evolution isn't about getting it right the first time; it's about taking the next step from where you are. Now, we're excited to share our next evolution: No Shame in Our Game, expanding beyond home management to help you feel better in every area of life. Because you're not alone in this journey—you're helping yourself with the help of community. Read more...
Embracing Easy: Learning to make life easy
|Lacey
I've had a complicated relationship with the word "lazy" my whole life. It became a word I used to beat myself up with. I often equated lazy with easy.   This has led to a complex relationship with productivity, input, output, appearances, and life's "shoulds." It might not paint me in the best light, so...prepare to like me a little less.   Lazy and Easy   Here's an honest confession—many things in life have come easily to me. School was easy. I was fortunate enough not to need much studying... Read more...
What is Home Management?
|Lacey
Imagine your home not as a picture-perfect curated photograph, but as an essential organization that functions for you and your family. While it may sound simple, defining what we mean is important. Home Management is a blend of organizing, planning, and maintaining various aspects of your home life to ensure smooth daily operations. It's not about striving for perfection but about making your space work for you. Helping you to reduce overwhelm by having a clear plan and defined goals. The Realistic Concept: Your Home as it Functions A well-managed... Read more...
Surviving the Holidays: Mental Health Edition
|Lacey
Introduction Ah, the holidays—where joy meets chaos, and twinkling lights mask the mental gymnastics many of us perform. You know the drill: juggling parties, shopping, and relatives with plenty of opinions on what you should be doing. It's a cocktail of excitement and exhaustion. I LOVE the holidays, but I also really struggle with all the expectations—both internal and external. The mental load can weigh as heavy as a fruitcake, but don't worry, I've got some light-hearted tips to keep our spirits bright and buoyant! Understanding the Holiday Mental Load... Read more...
Breaking Down Big Goals: The Power of Small Steps
|Sara
New beginnings can be fun, exciting and can bring on feelings of stress and overwhelm. Both can be true at the same time. Back to school is no exception. This article will break down some foundational tools to help you move forward with a plan to lean into the fun feelings and minimize the stressful ones. The Overwhelm Challenge What has you feeling overwhelmed right now? Painting a room? Pile of mail? Planning a trip? Whatever it is, you only need to start with one step. I know, I know,... Read more...
Zero to Hero, with A Little Motivation
|Sara
Life can be hard enough just trying to get through the day: traffic, news, bills, and all the daily challenges. Then you layer in all the other responsibilities: work, home, family, and countless other commitments. Finding the right motivation to tackle all these tasks can be crucial. Sometimes this all feels like an insurmountable pile of overwhelm we can never conquer. The result? Feeling like we're never doing enough, never getting it right. Trust me, we've all been there. Making a Change But hold onto your hats and get ready... Read more...
Guest Prepping Your Home (with as Little Stress as Possible)
|Sara
I often hear people say, "I want to have people over more often, but my home isn't up to hosting." Two truths here: We are social animals who enjoy spending time with others. We are almost never satisfied with how our homes look. If you're desiring to have your home ready for a get-together, here are some small, actionable steps to serve as a roadmap to get you there. 1. Define Which Areas Will Be Open to Guests It's okay to set boundaries in your home. "Yes, we will hang... Read more...
The Self-Care Struggle for Parents
|Sara
As a parent, it seems the default setting for self-care is having it at the very bottom of the never-ending to-do pile. But we know how that cycle goes: Do everything for everyone else → Become burned out and resentful → Yell and lose your cool → Feel bad for those around you and yourself. Parents must prioritize self-care to break this cycle. This cycle is easy to perpetuate, and it will continue to not feel good. Until… you take one step for yourself. Just one step, one minute, one... Read more...
Tackle Back-to-School Stress: 5 Steps For A Smooth Transition
|Sara
New beginnings can be fun, exciting and can bring on feelings of stress and overwhelm. Both can be true at the same time. Back to school is no exception. This article will break down some foundational tools to help you move forward with a plan to lean into the fun feelings and minimize the stressful ones. Break Down the Big into Smaller Blocks Those of you familiar with Home Management for Everyone know the foundational premise of breaking the big down into smaller blocks that feel more doable. That is... Read more...
The Case for Clutter: Why Clutter Can Actually Be a Good Thing
|Lacey
The post discusses the common negative perception of clutter, rooted in its dictionary definition. It argues that clutter can also be positive and comforting, citing examples from Nancy Meyers’ films. The author introduces the concepts of constructive, intentional, and curated clutter, advocating for a balanced, personalized approach to managing clutter in one's home. Read more...