Meet Tirra

Welcome to No Shame in the Home Game, the podcast that not looks.

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I'm Lacey and I'm the more awake one

of the two of us, which I feel like is

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not usual, here with my co host, Sarah.

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Hi, Sarah.

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Sara: Hi, Laci!

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Yes, this is real time live updates

of me and Laci's relationship.

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She is getting to see the natural Sarah.

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no shame, this is me rolled out of bed.

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I haven't done anything.

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I haven't even washed my face yet.

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I am honestly, this feels like

TMI, I'm wearing my pajamas.

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I am.

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Lacey: Yeah.

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Sara: I got home.

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It was a very long travel day yesterday.

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Flight got delayed, got home very late.

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And I was like, I gotta just embrace this.

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No shame.

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And I was like, okay, no shame.

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I'm in my slippers.

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I'm in my pajamas.

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Lacey: yes, that's what we like to all.

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I like sleepy Sarah, so that's just I

am so excited for everyone to meet Tyra,

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because, Sarah and I have fallen in so

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Sara: This is going to

sound so ridiculous.

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So I was traveling yesterday.

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We had this really long

layover in an airport.

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And something in me was like,

I wonder if Tyra's here.

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We've never met in real life, but I

was like, Oh, maybe the magic of the

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universe will put Tyra on my long layover.

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And I kept looking for her secretly

hoping that she would just like

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appear in the crowd and I would be

like, Oh my gosh, Tyra in real life!

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Lacey: Cause she would be

sunshine to make it better.

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I

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Sara: I, and I, you know what's so funny?

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I was smiling just

imagining if she was there.

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I was just, I was like, oh my

gosh, it would feel so good

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to get a real hug from Tyra.

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Okay, I'm borderline, stalking, I think.

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Maybe?

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I'm just wishing for her.

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I'm not showing up on her doorstep.

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I'm just wishing for her to

appear in the path of my life.

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Lacey: And I get it she is a delight,

and I really love that her story is very

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different than anyone we've done so far.

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A lot of our, they have kids currently

and for Tyra, retired from being a

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moving her life told my mom I was

like mom I want and your yourself

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Sara: Oh, it was so powerful.

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I'm actually tearing up just thinking

about it because The way we were

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able to help her is the reason I do

this work to see the shame and the

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heaviness that she was carrying.

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She did amazing, beautiful work.

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And for her to walk around

with shame, it's the opposite.

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She should be celebrating

her accomplishments.

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And so to guide her to a different.

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Mindset and to be able to

frame her home differently.

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that's what we want for everybody.

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Just 1 percent happier, just one, 1%.

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And I think Tyra maybe got

more than 1 percent happier.

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I really think she did.

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Lacey: I Think let's

take a look or listen.

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Whatever.

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We're gonna listen to part none

of Tirra's story we think you're

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going to love her as much as we do.

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Mhm.

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Lacey: Welcome to No

Shame in the Home Game.

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I'm Laci.

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We are here with, one of our participants

for season two and we're really excited to

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get started, but I'm going to toss it over

to Sarah because she's our lady in charge.

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Sara: Ooh, lady in charge.

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I've never had that title before.

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I'm going to try that one on today.

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So yes, very excited.

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Season two, we have our third

participant for this season.

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Miss Tyra, who I met

through Becky Mollenkamp.

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that's our mutual connection.

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So this is actually our first time meeting

and I am just, as always, so thankful

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that guests are willing to come on.

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share where they are, share their

journey and be willing to be vulnerable

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in that space to help others.

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So thank you first and foremost.

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And then Tyra, if you'd like to share

just a little bit about who you are,

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where you are, and then about your

house, just, who lives in your house.

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Just a brief overview.

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I don't need to know like what color the

paint is, but just, is it an apartment?

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Is it a townhouse?

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whatever you can share so I can get a

feeling So and the homeschooling how

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many how many people did you homeschool?

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How many years did you homeschool?

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that's You I have so many questions,

first of all, but we're not

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going to get to all my questions.

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I am like, you just opened up this whole

plethora of, oh, that's interesting,

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but I'm going to try to keep it on

topic of No Shame in the Home Game.

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Tell me about the homeschooling.

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Did you do it in the house

that you're in right now?

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how many, years was that?

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lot of, so that's a lot of history.

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And what I love about this is when

I come to work with people, there's

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often some sort of transition,

either moving into a new house,

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getting ready to move out of a house.

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And so what I'm hearing is you've got

this transition point of, You did, you

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were homeschooling for a long time and

now you've got these new endeavors.

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And so the history, you're still

surrounded by the history of

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what you were doing for so long.

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And you were saying you're just

living with your husband now.

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So your boys are out of the house.

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Okay.

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Yes.

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And, Oh, absolutely.

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Oh, no.

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Absolutely.

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And so your husband, is he still

working as well or is he home more?

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I'm just trying to figure out traffic

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patterns of the house.

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Yeah.

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The pandemic provided a lot of clarity

to my work about how a home functions

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and the energy of people coming

in and going back and the flows.

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So good to know about that.

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And with your work, are you

doing it all from the home?

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Are you traveling out

and coming back as well?

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Okay.

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Just briefly because sometimes it helps

me understand where people are coming

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from in your home of origin where you

grew up did you have a stay at home

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mom and did homeschooling as well?

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Or like what?

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What was that like growing up?

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Is it similar?

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Is it different?

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so what I heard is your mom

was naturally the picker upper.

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You didn't naturally do that, but when

called upon, you know how to do it and

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it, now, as an adult, what I'm hearing

you say is you like when things are

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picked up, when guests come and you

really go at it, but I, what I hear you

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saying is it's a little exhausting day to

day when you're basically taking on the

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role of your mom saying okay, everybody,

come on, let's rally, let's pick up.

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And, but it's exhausting when it's every

day and the visions maybe don't line up.

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Okay.

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and I wanna get really

clear on that value.

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Value in that nobody is appreciating

your hard work and or value

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that they're not also doing it.

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Is there a distinction or is it both?

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Okay, and so now we're at a point

where you said one son is pretty

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much the older son is pretty much not

living at the house and the younger

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son just comes home every now and then.

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So luckily not as many.

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People to try to accommodate now

thinking about your house and the

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different spaces Can you tell me like

is there a kitchen dining room family?

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Can you give me a rundown of all the?

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the spaces in the house is

it a one car or two car garage

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and is there a car in there?

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and I, and for the listener and for you,

I never asked these questions cause I'm

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doing some Zillow estimate in my head.

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I, it really is to get

to where you want to go.

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All of this information just helps.

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Yeah.

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And so anyone listening

who's boy, she's nosy.

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It really helps me picture load because

, I always talk about how items have weight.

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Not just physical weight,

but emotional weight.

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Like every time you're passing that

garage and doesn't have a car in it.

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you've done it so much, but

you don't realize how much

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it's actually in your head.

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And so it's just

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important for me to visualize

like, Oh, are we really just

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talking about a couple of closets?

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It's no, you're telling me

there's no car in the garage.

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And is there a basement or an

attic that you're dealing with?

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Okay.

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When you work at home, Are

you in an office space?

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Where are you working out of?

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I've said this for a long time

now and I still feel this way.

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I feel like the perfect home setup is

this mirrored where there's a common

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communal kitchen living room, but

then we have like our separate Like,

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kind of like what you're saying.

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if the husband wants to have his style

over here, like you don't have to see

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it, have, let him have his own bedroom,

bathroom, everything like laundry room.

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, yeah, I would love to be able to

just be like, yeah, let's meet up

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for meals in this communal space.

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And then let's be able to go

back to how we want to keep.

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Mhm.

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Mhm.

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Sara: So I love that you've already

claimed this office and do you feel

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like you're keeping your office exactly

how you want it to make you feel good?

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Have you gotten to that point?

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this is the part where I always like

to validate people because I feel like

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we don't get enough validation in our

lives, which is you've got this home

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you've lived in since, what was it?

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yeah, we're coming up on.

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I can't do 20 years math, 20 years.

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You raised two sons who

are moved out, right?

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You and your husband

are both still working.

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You still have, you're doing

your own business, which Lacey

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and I are both entrepreneurs.

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that is seven days a week.

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You never stopped thinking about it.

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You also have this part

time job with a nonprofit.

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So let's just first validate

how much you have going on.

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And that's really, honestly, when I

go to work with clients, the first

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step is always just let's honor

how we got here, why we're here.

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And it not feeling good, I

always say is like a red flag.

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And it's okay.

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Red flag, it needs attention, but we

don't have to keep feeling that red flag.

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Once we're like, okay, I've noted it,

now let's make a plan and do something.

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Because that, like I said, that emotional

weight, it can keep dragging us down.

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until we either solve it or come

to peace with it, which I think

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I feel like you've already come

to peace with a lot of things.

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It sounds like you've already moved

through a lot and I'd love that

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you claimed this room for yourself.

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How does all of that feel to

just honor like, Oh, I do have

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a lot going on in my life.

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Oh,

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I I tried

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homeschooling my son

for that pandemic year.

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And I waved the white flag and I

told his teacher, I can't do this.

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I'm never going to, I'm not in my style.

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So for you to say that you homeschooled

your boy, like I, I can't do that.

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And so the amount of energy and

attention that took mama needs a break.

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you've

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done so much.

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And this is why I started doing this work,

because I was in so many people's homes.

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And I heard women share with me

this shame, this sense of failure.

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And everyone had it, but with

something slightly different.

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and I was like this confidant, but yet I'm

going, Hey, everyone's feeling this way.

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And if we just talk about it,

maybe it won't feel so shameful.

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Because it's a lot of

work and Oh, take your

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time.

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You're so welcome.

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this is why I love this because I

needed to hear that when I became a wife

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and a mom and I was like, Oh my gosh,

nobody is giving me breathing space.

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There's never a time to catch your breath.

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There's always something to do.

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And it's just oh my gosh, I also don't

feel like I was trained to do this

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stuff, but yet we're expected to live up

to this, I always call it the magazine

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standard, which is just a catch all of.

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There's this weird expectation that

somehow we're always ready for a

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magazine shoot to happen in our homes.

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And it's no homes are for living

and functioning and you lived

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and functioned in your house.

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And now you're at a point where you're

at a different stage and you have time

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to catch your breath and look around

and go, this isn't working for me.

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Great.

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That's where we are.

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that's why we're here.

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And I'm So thankful that you're

trusting me and somebody else

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listening is resonating with this.

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I Bet more than one person.

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I know I am I know Lacey is I know more

people are gonna resonate with us So what

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we come to is I have a very good feel

of where you are I want to get a little

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bit clear on where you want to go and

I'm gonna tell you right now We're not

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gonna achieve all of the where you want

to go but You We're going to talk about

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where you want to go and then we're going

to find a path to, to start to get to

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maybe one of the mini goals that will

come to where you want to go in the end.

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So when you visualize, what do

you want the house to be, to

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feel, to look, what's the dream?

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yeah.

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I hear you say breathing room.

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All of that I hear you say.

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I want some breathing room.

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this is beautiful and this is great.

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And I just jotted down some directions.

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I'm going to review what that looks like.

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The first thing is all these

items you want to get rid of.

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That's so great.

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It sounds like you already

have the fire to do it.

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Sometimes when I meet with

clients, the first step is just

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getting Comfortable letting go.

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But I hear you saying

you're ready to let go.

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Is that right?

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Okay, great.

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One is you and I will figure out

together way to get away, selling,

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you and I will figure that out.

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The second would be for you and your

husband have a about if you, okay.

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So at least the schooling items,

does he have feelings about getting

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Tiira: No, not at all.

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Sara: And it's one of those things

sometimes where if we can work

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around the edges and our to notice

they get the and the momentum once

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you start, but sometimes we have to

go for really like low fruit items.

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So I would say if you know where

you can start purging, that's

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not going to ruffle any feathers.

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I would say just keep

on keeping on And then.

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I love the idea.

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Like I said, the fuel when I work with

clients, there's always exciting part

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in and then Oh, you're a and then stuff

gets tough and that's when the energy

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And I hear, a beautiful vision and I

also a lot of weight, emotional weight.

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There's a lot of action So as

much as you can, I would ask

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at inspiration whether it's

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journaling, clear on where

you're going and your coach, you

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know, all this get really clear.

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What's the lighting What

is Is there a don't know.

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is there new artwork on the walls?

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Are you inspire yourself because

what happens is we're in our homes.

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It doesn't feel good.

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It's weighing us down.

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And that's what causes us action,

we have to know can smell this way.

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It but I need to know where

I'm going that I feel inspired.

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To pick up these boxes that I don't want

to make the appointment to donate them

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because You're gonna have steps outside

of your normal every day and you're

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still working You got your own business.

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You're working part time.

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Your husband's to do your day to

day stuff You're gonna be adding

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in new So if you are passionate

About what you're doing vision.

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It'll really help with those steps.

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Cause it's going to right?

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At first it's going to feel like a

difference and then it's going to

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feel like it's not going anywhere,

but And and you know that too,

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you said you used to do right?

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Tiira: Uhhuh.

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Sara: Isn't there always that oh yeah,

I'm going to do this new routine.

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And they're like all excited.

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And then about four, six

weeks in they're tired.

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They haven't give up, but you

know, two or three more Yes.

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Tiira: Very good analogy.

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Wow.

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That's good.

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That's helpful.

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Sara: Oh, I'm the analogy queen.

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That's I see, I actually

see image it's tough for me.

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I see images in my head and

then I have to find the words.

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So I'm always like, are you seeing

what I'm describing in my head?

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I'm glad that one resonated.

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So we're going to figure out an

easy way to get rid of And then I

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would ask like I said, with with

the items you haven't touched.

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no If you pick something up

and you start to you don't need

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because it of items know you Yeah.

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Tiira: That is correct?

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Sara: will, or you will are, I,

that day will come, but let's put

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those items off to the, let's just,

you can just earmark those items.

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I would say, and whatever is Maybe

it's putting a box, a cardboard box

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Every time you walk in a room and

your eye goes, don't need that, throw

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it in the box, throw it in the box.

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When that box gets full, mark it and

a lot of people want to sell their

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stuff, but the amount of energy

you never get your money back.

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I shouldn't

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hardly.

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Unless it's a big ticket item,

you hardly I really give away.

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So if that box is full, close the lid,

take up a Sharpie and say, donate books

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and paper goods, just briefly label,

because if you donate, or a Salvation

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but if you can get some cardboard boxes.

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make sure you tape the bottom them down.

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pick it up, it's going to be heavy.

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And every time you pick up a box and

you feel that weight, you go, I'm

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getting some more breathing space,

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Tiira: Ooh,

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Sara: right?

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some people want to go deep end,

dive all the way in and just go, but

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I find that people tend to faster.

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So I always encourage put

a box in the room, right?

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Just That to me, the step, the more

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Tiira: Okay.

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I

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Sara: Um, and I what you're kitchen

The living That step is farther

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down the lifted out of the house.

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Keep that in And that's going to be

once you get down And that, that,

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okay, these are the items are the

items that support the Then that's

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the, that doesn't belong there, but

first we have to lighten the load.

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How does that sound?

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I see you smiling.

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I see you nodding your head.

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I'm hoping this feels doable.

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Tiira: yes, yes, it all feels doable.

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And one of the things that you said

that I hadn't figured out, cause

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I have the boxes and, but I was

leaving them by the front door.

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So to put the box and put a

box in each room is how I'm

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actually going to get this done.

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So that is

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Sara: I keep, this is for anyone

listening who that resonated with.

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I actually bag my closet

and my son's closet.

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And the second I go, I'm

never wearing that again.

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It doesn't fit the second.

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I think that I put it in the bag.

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It's done.

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I never have to remember.

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I never have to have that thought again.

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And when that bag is full, I just tie it

up and And then once that box move it to

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the front It's going out of the house.

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You put it in the front of the garage.

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You put it where move it out.

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Sometimes we have the

tendency leave it to later.

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But once that box is full, get it one step

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Tiira: good with that.

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I actually have a car work

and let down the back seats

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and I keep them flat just for

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Sara: you drive by a place like a

goodwill or a salvation Oh my gosh,

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Tiira: Minutes from my house.

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Sara: this is it.

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As soon as that box is

full, put it in the car.

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Whenever you run an errand and you go by,

say lovey, somebody else can use this.

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I don't need it.

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It's not adding to So I

feel like we got to steps.

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Do you have any questions about those

steps about lightening your load, getting

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Tiira: No questions.

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I didn't mention that part

cause I got so into the boxes.

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The vision.

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I do stay focused a lot on what I see

now and then it just feels or even just

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thinking, I've tried this in the past

and it doesn't seem like it's worked,

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but I'm going to definitely have the

vision and remind myself of how much

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I'm going to have more breathing room.

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So that was very helpful also.

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but no, I think I'm ready.

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Sara: I'm so excited.

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That's the thing.

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I love that you are a coach and you've

done the exercise know you've worked with

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clients who said, I've tried everything.

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It's not going to work.

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And it's just, no, we just gotta keep

trying different and I know you're

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tired, but that's why I do the work I

do because I'm here to say there is a

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you will because after all that time.

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you've already got mama's

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Tiira: I already got mama's

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Sara: you just got to do

in a couple more spaces.

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You're going to, I'm

giving you permission.

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I'm giving you momentum.

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Oh, Tyra.

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I am like, I'm having a moment

because I love the work that I do.

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And I love And I can see

that it's opened inside of

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Tiira: It really has.

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Thank you.

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Sara: I, my, my day is good.

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I don't need, I don't need

to do anything else today.

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Tiira: That makes me feel good to hear.

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Sara: Oh, we had a moment.

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Oh my God.

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This is

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Tiira: I really appreciate you because

I went on vacation and then I came

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back home and I was just like, so to

come in the day after coming in from

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vacation and talking to you and getting

this kind of hope feels amazing.

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Lacey: Does it Sarah just make

you want to take over the world?

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Tiira: Yes.

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Sara: Well, and speaking of the world,

that's why Lacey and I are doing this

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podcast because of the ripple, because

if you feel 5 percent better in your

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you're going to go out into the world

with 5 percent more of your best self.

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And then every, I truly

believe and Lacey does too.

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at first I said I wanted like a

10% change, and I think Oh, 1%.

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So if

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Lacey: said 1%

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Sara: 1% and that 1% and that like this

is how we make change is with all with us.

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And you.

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and I will be in touch

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Tiira: Okay.

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Sara: And then the next time we to talk

about what's what challenges how are

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Tiira: Okay.

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Sara: And then we're

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Tiira: Okay.

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That sounds perfect.

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Thank you.

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Mhm.

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Mhm.

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I hope you enjoyed meeting

Tyra as much as we did so much

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more amazing goodness to come.

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And again, , I like to try

to remind people often.

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Is to really honor that Tyra

opened up her home to us.

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And as you hear, she

got really vulnerable.

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and I did ask her permission

before we started putting these

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episodes out in the world.

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I said, Hey, it got pretty emotional.

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Are you okay with.

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With me publishing that because I

said, I can actually edit that out.

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And she said, Nope, I want to, she

goes, that's what really happened.

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And I want to share it with others.

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And again, just the amazing power of Tyra

that she just thought, yep, let's put

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that out there and help other people.

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So again, thank you to Tyra and all of

our participants for showing what's really

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happening behind the front door in your

home so that we can help other people.

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Track 1: we will get

back to Tyra's few weeks.

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starting episode two for And that's

where we get the nitty gritty of how

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it's going or not going or that stuff.

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Um,

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it is, there's no shame.

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Track 1: not I think that Now,

Sleepy Sarah, of gratitude?

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gonna see Sleepy Sarah wake right up.

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I am so excited.

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So we were in a different town

and there's this movie theater.

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It's a chain.

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It's called the Alamo.

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There's a few of them.

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Not where I, oh, you know about

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then I went to one in New York.

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There's not here where I am,

but I've, I am aware of them and

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There's not one right where I live.

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So I had to go to a

different state to go to one.

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And.

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So exciting.

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I am such a sci fi nerd.

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I'm a bird nerd.

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I'm a sci fi nerd.

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I'm a systems streamlining nerd.

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We got to see Dune 2 in the theater

and then layer it on top of this

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amazing movie theater where you

get these comfy chairs, you get

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these tables, you get to order this

delicious food that comes right to you.

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The whole experience.

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Was amazing.

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And not only that, I got

to see it with family who

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appreciated Dune as much as I do.

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Cause you know, some people

could take or leave it,

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am not going to tell you

to feel otherwise, cause I

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know how that's going to go,

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I was so in it.

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I think the movie, I don't

know what the runtime was.

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We were in the theater for over three

hours with the pre and the post.

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The time flew by in a flash.

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I was so embedded.

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And as soon as it was over, I was

like, I'm seeing that again, because

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it's just, there's so much goodness.

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I'm like, Oh, so yeah.

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And there was this one scene, I don't

want to spoil it for anyone, but there was

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this one scene that I wasn't expecting.

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And I actually threw my

arms up in the theater.

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It was like, yes, I

wasn't embarrassed at all.

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And then, oh boy.

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Bonus gratitude, this Alamo

theater, everything in their

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decor has to do with movies.

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It's really cool.

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The second you walk in, you feel like

you're just, okay, I'm ready for a movie.

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When we were leaving, there was a nine

foot tall replica of the predator.

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So I got my niece to take a picture

of me and I'm hanging onto his arm.

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And I'm like, Smiling and

I like kicked my foot up.

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So I look like I'm in

love with the predator.

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And I was like, this is amazing.

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So I've got a lot of gratitude

around the movie theater.

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And now I'm going to start a

petition so that we can get one

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near me.

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yeah, I've heard of them.

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And like I said, and she lived in

New York, we there in like, I get it.

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Yeah, get it.

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The way movies should be.

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Like totally.

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So that's my, I went long.

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That is mine.

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Lacey, what is your moment of gratitude?

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Bye for now.

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I've been over here like going around

and around of and I am just going to

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pick my daughter's three or she will

be I think on the day this it'll be her

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birthday, but lately is just killing me.

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With her little voice saying the funniest

and I just love it so last night So we

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read books mommy daddy and by read books.

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I found out the library the Libby

app specifically or hoopla I

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recommend both if Have read along And

reading out loud is actually a very

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challenging reading speaking out loud.

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You these read along and I hold

the iPad and we talk about it.

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So it's still interactive and last night

for Isaac And I got up to do something.

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I came back and she was in my spot and

she was like, I took your spot, mommy.

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And it was just, she's got just

this high little voice and I

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was like, what are you doing?

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So I just am really.

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Loving.

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Now, is she potty training

more places than I would like?

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Yes.

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sassafras?

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Yes.

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But man, I all day and she does, she'll

just lay down and talk another thing,

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and then I'll stop about my kids, but,

so I have implemented, actually, because

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of this, in some ways, at the dinner

every day, I like us all to sit down

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together And at the dinner table, we

do a high and is your high of your day?

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have a low of your day?

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Cause it's both.

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We need to know about both.

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And Iris doesn't totally get it, but

she sits down and when it's time, she's

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my high is, and it's usually her And

then my low is, and then it's usually

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one of the other kids in her class

that she frenemies relationship with.

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And it's just so funny.

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and one a different day we were sitting

down to lunch and she was like, hi and lo.

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And I'm like, no, we do that at

dinner at the end of the day.

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But I was so glad that you

are here and you're ready

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I love when kids start showing

their unique personality and

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you get to see that Oh, okay.

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This is their personality.

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It's so

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fun.

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And I am so excited she is a, she

loves to do a callback already to a

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previous thing that we all found funny.

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So one of the things, for some reason,

at some point, Joe came into a bathroom

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and was like, excuse me, are you pooping?

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And he like did And so now every

once in a while, Iris like, excuse

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me, are you pooping out of nowhere?

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And if the first time I didn't know

about it, so I'm like, are you pooping

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I was like, get up, go to the bathroom.

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And then Joe was like, Oh, I think

I but now she'll like, do it as

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a callback as an inside joke.

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And I'm like, this is the greatest

thing that's ever happened.

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I love this.

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That is a, that's varsity

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for a not even three year old

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to do a comedic callback.

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I look

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what my house is going to

look like they grow because

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that is so great.

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Oh, I love that for

you and your household.

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That's amazing.

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Cause 90 percent of our jokes right now

are fart jokes Joe, but all of the age

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of And I think my favorite part is that

Iris, anytime someone's who farted?

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She always is I did it.

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And she uses it like

And I just, it's solid.

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She's so on it.

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And I cannot how this evolves going

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little sliver of me that goes, Ooh, is

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that mean she's going to be the class

clown and you're going to be getting

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a lot of phone calls from the teacher.

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Stay tuned.

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That'll be worth it.

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you'll go, what was the joke?

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And the teacher will

tell you and you'll go

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worth

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Solid.

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No, I get it.

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approve.

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about appropriateness and timing,

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but the joke itself, clean and

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I love this.

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Oh my gosh.

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I've had a week without Lacey and

it's so good to have, it's so good

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to have you back late, or, you

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didn't go anywhere.

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It's so good to be, it's

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make sure I didn't, I like, I wanted

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Sarah to have time off and space.

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And so I did, I to not, I

don't want to say bother you,

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but I didn't want you had to

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And what's funny is I didn't really look

at this experience as a relaxing trip.

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I, cause it's family.

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So it feels a little bit more

like duty, not in a bad way.

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But, but then once I got there

and I was not at my own house and

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I woke up and I was like, Oh, I

don't have any chores to do here.

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and I didn't plan on doing any work.

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And it was like, Oh, my brain was just

like, you've got nothing to do, man.

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And I was like, cool.

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This is, so I realized I

need that decompression time.

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Everybody does.

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Everybody does.

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But I realized I had to

leave my house to get it.

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And yeah, it felt really good.

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yeah,

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so that was a surprisingly relaxing trip

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and we all need that.

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so this is, I just want to remember,

so this was episode one of Tyra.

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So next week will be

episode two of Ashley,

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that's where we are.

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And I.

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And I am so thankful for season two,

and I'm so thankful for Lacey, and

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thank you for everything, Lacey.

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