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Solidly Mid-Thirties Now
|Lacey
I turn 34 this week. After consulting Google, I confirmed that I am not to middle age yet. Apparently, that generally starts around after 35, closer to 40. So this will be about being in my mid-thirties, but not middle age. It seemed fitting to reflect on aging and the middle. Maybe I have some more wisdom now. As usual, I have some thoughts. We can see whether they’re wise or not. Aging doesn’t bother me I always remember wanting to be older. This isn’t anything new or unique to... Read more...
Women Who Made Me
|Lacey
March is Women’s History Month, and it also happens to be my birthday month. My birthday is the day after International Women’s Day. I like to joke that we celebrate all women, and then all of that good will and energy created me. I started my podcast in December, and there were several women who I knew I wanted as guests, but I hadn’t made it happen yet. So, I started to think, why not make them a special series so I can highlight them? With March being Women’s History... Read more...
Time is on my Mind
|Lacey
Our relationships with time are complicated. Thinking about my own relationship has become a necessity and something I can't escape. Read more...
Is Self-Care Important?
|Lacey
Spoiler Alert: Yes, Self-Care is Important. I almost hate talking and writing about Self-Care because of how it has been turned into a gimmick. It has become a quick note of something that you should do to survive a difficult phase, or something an employer tells its employees to do without giving them the actual tools/ability to do it. There is also a chance someone is trying to sell you something. Which, totally guilty of here, but I’m not trying to sell you a bath bomb, so feels a little... Read more...
I am too excited about Air Fryers 2 years too late
|Lacey
My parents got me an air fryer as an early birthday present (because I asked, they're the best). I've thought about getting an air fryer for a long time but always talked myself out of it. Friends, I was wrong. I finally pulled the trigger because of the accessibility of it. Being able to quickly roast something that doesn't involve me getting out many pans, actually is a big deal for my current ability level. I got it last night and I've used it 6 times today. Not an exaggeration.... Read more...
Why The Mddl
|Lacey
All the marketing courses and gurus want me to really solidify my why so that I can ground all of my marketing content to serve that mission. I have written little snippets here and there, but I sat down to write something for myself and realized, why don’t I write it for everyone! If you haven’t heard of Start With Why, it’s a Simon Sinek book and concept. The video below is an explainer for you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u4ZoJKF_VuA&vl=en He talks about this golden circle. Here is the visual if you don't... Read more...
Middle of the Day Nap
|Lacey
Yes, I am shamelessly using a puppy napping because that is the tone of this essay. Read more...
sad today
|Lacey
Enjoy this Members only poem - you can subscribe to the Membership for this content. Read more...
Digging Deeper on 100 Things That Make Me Happy
|Lacey
With the downer that has been my past few week’s posts, and in honor of Support from The Mddl releasing this week, I thought I would look deeper at one of my exercises in it. A few years ago, my sweet friend Zac challenged me to make a list of 100 things that Make Me Happy because I would often say the phrase, “that makes me happy.” I’ve made this list several times in my life and have added and deleted as my life changes. The beauty in it is... Read more...
Support From The Mddl is Out!
|Lacey
I wrote a (work)book and I am so proud of it! Learn more about Support From The Mddl and get yours today! Get Yours Let Me Tell You More https://youtube.com/shorts/veQP2dy65gk?feature=share Let me walk you through our Journey Together! The Journey of Support From The Mddl Your Full Map Get Yours Reviews Here is what people are saying about Support From The Mddl. She distills the self exploratory journey of self help books into what feels like a conversation with a bestie. Sara K. Lacey’s book feels like a welcome convo... Read more...
Being Too Much
|Lacey
For a woman who thinks about the middle a lot, I certainly struggle with the concept of moderation. Maybe this is just another reason why I struggle with the middle. Read more...
Grieving Myself
|Lacey
We say goodbye to old versions of ourselves all the time. Many times we grieve our old selves without acknowledging it. Read more...