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HME x JSM: Greater than the sum of the parts

|Lacey Tomlinson
I've always loved the expression "The whole is greater than the sum of its parts". It feels like magic that one thing can be more than the elements that were...

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Embracing Easy: Learning to make life easy
|Lacey
I've had a complicated relationship with the word "lazy" my whole life. It became a word I used to beat myself up with. I often equated lazy with easy.   This has led to a complex relationship with productivity, input, output, appearances, and life's "shoulds." It might not paint me in the best light, so...prepare to like me a little less.   Lazy and Easy   Here's an honest confession—many things in life have come easily to me. School was easy. I was fortunate enough not to need much studying... Read more...
What is Home Management?
|Lacey
Imagine your home not as a picture-perfect curated photograph, but as an essential organization that functions for you and your family. While it may sound simple, defining what we mean is important. Home Management is a blend of organizing, planning, and maintaining various aspects of your home life to ensure smooth daily operations. It's not about striving for perfection but about making your space work for you. Helping you to reduce overwhelm by having a clear plan and defined goals. The Realistic Concept: Your Home as it Functions A well-managed... Read more...
Surviving the Holidays: Mental Health Edition
|Lacey
Introduction Ah, the holidays—where joy meets chaos, and twinkling lights mask the mental gymnastics many of us perform. You know the drill: juggling parties, shopping, and relatives with plenty of opinions on what you should be doing. It's a cocktail of excitement and exhaustion. I LOVE the holidays, but I also really struggle with all the expectations—both internal and external. The mental load can weigh as heavy as a fruitcake, but don't worry, I've got some light-hearted tips to keep our spirits bright and buoyant! Understanding the Holiday Mental Load... Read more...
The Case for Clutter: Why Clutter Can Actually Be a Good Thing
|Lacey
The post discusses the common negative perception of clutter, rooted in its dictionary definition. It argues that clutter can also be positive and comforting, citing examples from Nancy Meyers’ films. The author introduces the concepts of constructive, intentional, and curated clutter, advocating for a balanced, personalized approach to managing clutter in one's home. Read more...
Feeling Overwhelmed as a Mom: Strategies for Finding Balance and Support
|Lacey
Feeling overwhelmed as a mom is a common experience, yet each of us feels it uniquely. Between juggling the never-ending demands of parenting, managing a household, and often balancing work responsibilities, it's easy to feel like we're falling short. We're here to explore strategies that help bring balance back into our lives and provide the support we so deeply need. From understanding the roots of our overwhelm to practical tips for everyday challenges, we'll navigate this journey together. It's vital to acknowledge that feeling overwhelmed doesn't mean we're failing. Instead,... Read more...
Joy of Beach Reads
|Lacey
Summertime is filled with many clichés, but one of my favorites is the concept of a Beach Read. A beach read is a book you read purely for fun and joy. It's a book designed for reading quickly during long stretches of time. I’m going to let you in on a little secret - I only read beach reads. Read more...
The Power of Names in Home Management
|Lacey
In my Communication degree, one of the first lessons I learned was that we give meaning to words. We usually associate two types of meanings with words: denotation, which is the literal dictionary definition, and connotation, which is the additional meanings we assign to words. These additional meanings can be thought of as the emotional baggage attached to a word. Whenever that word is used or applied, we associate all of its baggage with the context.   Take the word "moist" as an example. For some, hearing "This cake is... Read more...
Human Design with Adriana Keefe
|Lacey
It is no secret that we love Adriana. It is her Human Design course that Lacey and Sara met. Listen to Human Design with Adriana Keefe It not only started their journey to making the JSM, but it also started both of their journey with Human Design. You can get your free Human Design Chart on Adriana's site and check out her current offerings! Check her out! Read more...
Good, Better, Best
|Lacey
Introduction to the Good Better Best Framework One of the most challenging aspects of life is its unpredictability. The Good Better Best framework is a tool designed to help you flex and adapt to what life throws your way. Understanding the Framework The essence of the Good Better Best framework is in giving yourself the space to adapt. For instance, if you planned a fresh salad with homemade lasagna but end up spending 3 unplanned hours at Urgent Care, you can downshift from Best to Good. Opt for some frozen... Read more...
Modern Friendship Book Report
|Lacey
In today's busy world, building and maintaining friendships can sometimes feel like an uphill battle. That's where the book 'Modern Friendship' comes in, offering practical advice and tips that can make the journey a little less daunting. One of the most striking aspects of this book is its practical nature. It provides tangible exercises, prompts, and challenges that can help readers improve their friendships in real-world situations. Whether you're looking to form new friendships or strengthen existing ones, this book provides a solid foundation for understanding the importance of friendships... Read more...
Chill Mobility with Rebecca Stewart
|Lacey
We're thrilled to introduce you to a remarkable figure in the fitness industry who comes highly recommended by the Joyful Support Movement - Rebecca Stewart. Rebecca, a former nonprofit worker, transitioned full-time into the fitness industry, turning her lifelong passion for movement into a career. With a diverse background including dance, swimming, and capoeira, she offers a unique take on physical wellbeing. We think you’ll adore her as much as we do. Rebecca's Approach to Fitness Rebecca believes that fitness is for everyone and should be accessible, inclusive, and supportive.... Read more...
HOLD - Hearing Out Life Drama
|Lacey
HOLD professional listeners are here when: You are overwhelmed and need someone to talk to When people you know are too close to the problem or worse, ARE the problem You are afraid of being judged for what you need to say A professional listener is someone who listens to you without judgment, bias, or unwanted advice. https://www.hearingoutlifedrama.com Read more...