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HME x JSM: Greater than the sum of the parts

|Lacey Tomlinson
I've always loved the expression "The whole is greater than the sum of its parts". It feels like magic that one thing can be more than the elements that were...

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HME x JSM: Greater than the sum of the parts
|Lacey Tomlinson
I've always loved the expression "The whole is greater than the sum of its parts". It feels like magic that one thing can be more than the elements that were added in. And I love magical feelings. For years I had operated as a solopreneur handling every element of running a business. One of those versions looked very similar to JSM with courses and community. But it didn't work, I burned out hard and fast. About to call it all quits and apply for an hourly job that brought me... Read more...
We're evolving (and that's not a failure)
|Lacey Tomlinson
Ten years ago, I couldn't have imagined where I'd be today—co-founding the Joyful Support Movement, co-hosting podcasts, and building an online village of support. But evolution isn't about getting it right the first time; it's about taking the next step from where you are. Now, we're excited to share our next evolution: No Shame in Our Game, expanding beyond home management to help you feel better in every area of life. Because you're not alone in this journey—you're helping yourself with the help of community. Read more...
What is Home Management?
|Lacey
Imagine your home not as a picture-perfect curated photograph, but as an essential organization that functions for you and your family. While it may sound simple, defining what we mean is important. Home Management is a blend of organizing, planning, and maintaining various aspects of your home life to ensure smooth daily operations. It's not about striving for perfection but about making your space work for you. Helping you to reduce overwhelm by having a clear plan and defined goals. The Realistic Concept: Your Home as it Functions A well-managed... Read more...
Surviving the Holidays: Mental Health Edition
|Lacey
Introduction Ah, the holidays—where joy meets chaos, and twinkling lights mask the mental gymnastics many of us perform. You know the drill: juggling parties, shopping, and relatives with plenty of opinions on what you should be doing. It's a cocktail of excitement and exhaustion. I LOVE the holidays, but I also really struggle with all the expectations—both internal and external. The mental load can weigh as heavy as a fruitcake, but don't worry, I've got some light-hearted tips to keep our spirits bright and buoyant! Understanding the Holiday Mental Load... Read more...
Breaking Down Big Goals: The Power of Small Steps
|Sara
New beginnings can be fun, exciting and can bring on feelings of stress and overwhelm. Both can be true at the same time. Back to school is no exception. This article will break down some foundational tools to help you move forward with a plan to lean into the fun feelings and minimize the stressful ones. The Overwhelm Challenge What has you feeling overwhelmed right now? Painting a room? Pile of mail? Planning a trip? Whatever it is, you only need to start with one step. I know, I know,... Read more...
Guest Prepping Your Home (with as Little Stress as Possible)
|Sara
I often hear people say, "I want to have people over more often, but my home isn't up to hosting." Two truths here: We are social animals who enjoy spending time with others. We are almost never satisfied with how our homes look. If you're desiring to have your home ready for a get-together, here are some small, actionable steps to serve as a roadmap to get you there. 1. Define Which Areas Will Be Open to Guests It's okay to set boundaries in your home. "Yes, we will hang... Read more...
Tackle Back-to-School Stress: 5 Steps For A Smooth Transition
|Sara
New beginnings can be fun, exciting and can bring on feelings of stress and overwhelm. Both can be true at the same time. Back to school is no exception. This article will break down some foundational tools to help you move forward with a plan to lean into the fun feelings and minimize the stressful ones. Break Down the Big into Smaller Blocks Those of you familiar with Home Management for Everyone know the foundational premise of breaking the big down into smaller blocks that feel more doable. That is... Read more...
The Case for Clutter: Why Clutter Can Actually Be a Good Thing
|Lacey
The post discusses the common negative perception of clutter, rooted in its dictionary definition. It argues that clutter can also be positive and comforting, citing examples from Nancy Meyers’ films. The author introduces the concepts of constructive, intentional, and curated clutter, advocating for a balanced, personalized approach to managing clutter in one's home. Read more...
Feeling Overwhelmed as a Mom: Strategies for Finding Balance and Support
|Lacey
Feeling overwhelmed as a mom is a common experience, yet each of us feels it uniquely. Between juggling the never-ending demands of parenting, managing a household, and often balancing work responsibilities, it's easy to feel like we're falling short. We're here to explore strategies that help bring balance back into our lives and provide the support we so deeply need. From understanding the roots of our overwhelm to practical tips for everyday challenges, we'll navigate this journey together. It's vital to acknowledge that feeling overwhelmed doesn't mean we're failing. Instead,... Read more...
Clothes Management 101
|Sara
The fun part of clothes is bringing new clothes in. That shirt you bought on your lake trip. The new top that makes your eyes sparkle. But part of enjoying that fun part is making way for the new clothes and making space to honor the clothes you truly enjoy. So let’s dive into how best to manage clothes to keep enjoying them. Read more...
The Power of Names in Home Management
|Lacey
In my Communication degree, one of the first lessons I learned was that we give meaning to words. We usually associate two types of meanings with words: denotation, which is the literal dictionary definition, and connotation, which is the additional meanings we assign to words. These additional meanings can be thought of as the emotional baggage attached to a word. Whenever that word is used or applied, we associate all of its baggage with the context.   Take the word "moist" as an example. For some, hearing "This cake is... Read more...
Memento Management
|Sara
What is your most memorable keepsake? A shell from your first trip to the ocean?  Your beloved dog’s name tag? Or that hard earned medal from your first race?   Follow up, do you know where it is?   Keeping mementos from special times in your life is an enjoyable, tangible memory  box that should be a joyful experience for years to come. But just like with all  valuables, they need a safe place. It’s no fun to find your irreplaceable items torn, stained, and trampled by the storage of life. A few... Read more...